In-depth forgiveness story in NYT is a major boost to Restorative Justice

Seldom do the mainstream media invest serious column inches in Restorative Justice.  Monday’s New York Times broke the long silence in its groundbreaking journalism, headlined: ‘Can Forgiveness Play a Role in Criminal Justice?

Friends, this is an article that screams, “Forward Me!.”

In a nutshell, freelance writer Paul Tullis chronicles the tragic story of two Florida families facing a murder among loved ones.  A teenage son, Conor McBride, shot in the head his girlfriend, Ann Margaret Grosmaire, killing her after 30-plus hours of fighting and arguing in person, on the phone and in text messages.

Conor Mcbride, killed his fiancee Ann Margaret Grosmaire.

Florida teen, Conor McBride, who shot his girlfriend of three years in the head, killing her, is the recipient of family forgiveness.

Parents with deep and abiding faith chose to forgive the slaughter.  There is nothing glib in this story. A grueling process ensued, which is described in the NYT story.  Not a single participant is “soft on crime.”  The hard work of justice that restores is depicted in this complex drama.

The surviving families confront the limitations of a criminal justice system, which is focused primarily on dispensing severe punishment.  In the face of their decisions to choose the painful path of forgiveness, they encounter the shortcomings of the punitive criminal justice system at every turn.

Their decisions to forgive run counter to the prevailing system of severe punishment.

Writer Paul Tullis does not gloss over the ambiguities of a restorative justice approach.  There is nothing simple about this process. But he describes the intensity of the restorative community conference, consisting of everyone touched by the tragedy, including the prosecutor, the families of the son and daughter, a pastor and the attorneys involved in the process.

Tullis is especially effective in describing how the restorative justice process attempts to address the harms perpetrated on human beings who are the victims of crimes.  Giving crime victims the opportunity to be heard, at length, about the harms done to them is a central feature of restorative justice.

As the nation faces the impossibility of warehousing ever-increasing numbers of its citizens, stories about the healing available through restorative processes are certain to gain wider acceptance.  Finding ways of reconciling victims and offenders with each other will be increasingly crucial to the systems we use to seek justice.

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Washington state legislates restorative justice options for juvenile justice

Another state has embraced restorative justice principles as an option available to its criminal justice responses to crimes in its juvenile justice system.

Washington state’s Senate unanimously passed House Bill 1775, initially introduced by Rep. Roger Goodman (D-Kirkland), after an earlier unanimous House vote in support of the Goodman bill in February. The bill now goes to Democratic  Governor Chris Gregoire for approval.

To urge Governor Gregoire to support HB 1775, go to http://www.governor.wa.gov/contact/.

Washington adopted its reforms just under a year after similar moves toward restorative justice were enacted in Colorado. In a recent guest post here, Jeannette Holtham reported on further hearings before the Colorado legislature to implement restorative justice practices in schools. The reform efforts have been ongoing, as eductors, parents and students spoke out against the school-to-prison pipeline.

“Washington is a national leader in using evidence-based strategies to reduce juvenile crime, and all of the evidence proves that restorative justice is very effective at changing the behavior of juveniles and making victims feel whole again,” Goodman told the Kirkland Reporter. Goodman serves as vice chair of the House Judiciary Committee.

Washington State's Representative Roger Goodman

Washington State's Representative Roger Goodman, sponsor of the unanimously passed law to include restorative practices among options for juvenile justice resources.

“It’s amazing that when an offender in a restorative justice program takes responsibility for a crime and says he’s sorry, the victim almost always says the offender is forgiven,” said Goodman.  “Instead of fueling a cycle of increasing alienation and crime, these programs encourage a cycle of restoration that reconnects the offender with the community and reduces repeat offenses,” Goodman said.

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Restorative Justice in action – Prison Fellowship’s Justice Fellowship offers key elements of effective restorative programs:

8 Restorative Justice Practices for Effective RJ Programs

  1. Make available victim-offender mediation sessions
  2. Create diversion programs that move nonviolent, minimal risk offenders out of prison and into community-based treatment
  3. Offer reentry preparation for offenders anticipating release
  4. Remove barriers to offenders’ successful reintegration into society, such as restrictions on residency or employment that are not necessary to protect public safety
  5. Modify prison sentence lengths to justly reflect the harm caused by the crime committed
  6. Protect offenders from violence while they are in prison
  7. Strengthen the families of offenders
  8. Increase opportunities for prisoners’ transformation by protecting their religious freedom and their access to mentoring relationships.

 

Restorative Justice in practice – Peter and Will transform relationship after victim-offender process

In this blog I often use the phrase “Restorative Justice” and “restorative process,” assuming my readers know what I mean by the terms. Today, as I was reflecting on ways to communicate a concrete example of the process, I searched my online sources in Restorative Justice and found a video (below) which I hope you will watch and consider on the website of RestorativeJustice.org. If you like it, please share it with friends who care about peacemaking. (Hit “Reload” or “Refresh” on your browser if the video doesn’t immediately load.)

Watch and listen with an open heart to this example of restorative justice at work.  A lifelong repeat offender, a heroin addict, sits down with a victim of one of his crimes. [pullquote]This is not one of those prime time news videos in which the crime victim is given a few minutes to pour out her feelings in a an emotional victim impact statement, while the cameras roll. [/pullquote]This is a video documentation of a process in which a crime victim shares his sense of being violated, the sense of outrage, loss and damages he feels as a result of the offender’s crime. Often, there is a sense of impotence and powerlessness and a failure to  defend loved ones.

As a brief introduction to this restorative justice video, here’s a blurb from the website:

“Peter Woolf was a prolific offender, ensconced in a world of violence and depravity, who, by his own reckoning committed about 20,000 crimes. Then he burgled a house, fought with his victim and ended up in prison yet again. This time though it was different. Peter met with his victim, Will, in a restorative justice session that took place in the prison. The meeting changed both their lives for ever.”
[pullquote]Peter and Will tell their stories in this film which coincides with the launch of Peter’s book, The Damage Done published by Bantam Press and the launch of Why me? founded by Will, a campaign group set up by and for victims of crime who have benefited from restorative justice and want others to be able to benefit from the same opportunity.[/pullquote]

In our criminal justice system, the offender is defined as having committed a “crime against the state.” The victim of the crime is a bystander who sits in a public gallery, not a participant in the process. The person most directly harmed and affected by the crime is the one least involved in the process. They’re given no input into the proceedings.

In sharp contrast, a Restorative Justice process  (which is much more than a brief shouting and crying session with a counselor present) gives the crime victim an opportunity to ask the offender, “Why did you do that? Do you understand how that affects me?” And it gives the offender a chance to be accountable as a human being, and to share his(or her) own feelings in response to the confrontation or about the crime incident. In this video, the offender initiates real chanes in behavior. The offender-victim conferences give the victim of the crime a chance to express his/her rage, and a chance to acknowledge the humanity of the one responsible for the harm.  Restoration is more likely to occur in these settings than in a lengthy incarceration which is totally detached from the victims of the crime.

Please share this video posting with your social networks. I welcome your comments on this blog, too.

Ending ‘Zero Tolerance’ excesses in Colorado schools – Jeannette Holtham urges restorative justice practices

Editor’s Note:  As someone who came recently to the Restorative Justice (RJ) community, I have been impressed by the generosity of RJ practitioners, wherever they apply restorative principles.  Today’s guest blogger, Jeannette Holtham, is an example of that generosity.  Jeannette has been active in helping to implement restorative practices in Colorado schools, testifying last week in support of that state’s SB 12-046.  As readers of this blog may know, restorative justice activists in Colorado have chalked up several successes in their efforts to implement restorative justice practices in a variety of appropriate settings in the state.  Here is her summary of recent legislative efforts:

Replacing ‘Zero Tolerance’ in Schools with Restorative Practices

Colorado advocate of Restorative Justice practices in schools, Jeannette Holtham

Guest blogger Jeannette Holtham testified in support of SB 12-046 for restorative justice practices in Colorado


Zero tolerance
policies for schools are on the ropes in Colorado.  Senate Bill 12-046 hopes to give the final knockout punch in the current legislative session.  The bill has been in the ring for more than two years now with proponents of restorative justice attending school task force meetings to help fine-tune this milestone bill.  Law enforcement lobbyists have had a major presence along with schools, school advocacy groups, and non-profit leaders across the state.

As Youth Transformation Center founding president and author of Taking Restorative Justice to Schools: A Doorway to Discipline”, I testified to the Senate Education Committee this past week in order to clarify a number of misconceptions about restorative justice.

  1. Restorative justice is voluntary.  No one is forced into an RJ circle dialog unless the offender is willing to face his/her victim in a sincere effort to repair harm and unless a victim feels safe enough to participate.
  2. Restorative justice isn’t appropriate for every situation; for example, incidents and behaviors that require a therapeutic response (domestic violence, sexual assault, 3rd level chronic bullying) or a law enforcement response (weapons and drug use/sale that threaten the safety of the school).
  3. Restorative justice works especially well to reduce interpersonal conflicts in schools (gossip, name calling, 1st level bullying, picking on weaker students), minor physical altercations (pushing, shoving, kicking), and classroom disruption.
  4. Restorative justice reduces teacher burnout by giving our educators vital tools to help our communities raise responsible, socially astute young adults.
  5. Too many of our children have been “thrown away” through the overuse of suspension, expulsion and police ticketing for minor to moderate offenses that are better handled in schools.  Restorative justice keeps kids in school.

    RJ in schools, Jeannette Holtham Youth Transformation Center

    Colorado's Youth Transformation Center poster for Restorative Justice in schools.

Considering the fact that zero tolerance policies have led to an overuse of suspension and expulsion which have led to high dropout rates and the school to prison pipeline, and considering that in Colorado schools lose $6,800 for each student that drops out of school (and we pay $68,000 for every child that we warehouse in a prison), this milestone legislation is a no brainer.

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After posting Jeannette Holtham’s guest blog, a reader sent me a youtube video documenting last Fall’s nationwide push back against “Push Out” policies of school zero tolerance practices.  Jeannette did not recommend this link, but it seems to reinforce the message in her blog post. I welcome your comments.

Strength in numbers: a case for more I.T. to bolster Restorative Justice

On Tuesday, June 7, advocates of a restorative approach to criminal justice will begin arriving in Raleigh, NC, for the 3rd National Conference on Restorative Justice (RJ).   Speakers from around the world will bring their perspectives.

Fairnessworks.com is honored to be working with United Community Builders, a loose consortium of restorative justice practitioners, trainers, journalists and a systems analyst to present a case for strengthening the RJ community through wider user of information technology (I.T.).   Deb Galerneau-Scanlon will tackle these issues in a proposal for a new RJ360 Initiative.

It’s often said that information is power.  The creator of this Power Point presentation – The Business of RJ- the RJ360 Initiative — adds that actionable information leads to knowledge, and intelligently analyzed information leads to wisdom.

The full program for the three-day conference is available at www.restorativejusticenow.org

 

Data circles for an I.T. approach to Restorative Justice

Deb Galerneau-Scanlon's concentric circle concept for the use of hard numbers in R.J.

 

 

 

 

 

 

A Restorative Justice Success Story from the U.K.

Another day, another restoration.

Saturday’s issue of The Guardian features an interview (<— it’s important that you click here) with a crime victim and the chemically-dependent man who burglarized her home. As the reporter points out, this interview occurred after both parties had participated in Restorative Justice processes. Although victim-offender conferences are a central part of the process, the peacemaking circle at the heart of the process is much more comprehensive and intensive, involving family members, representatives of the local community and the justice system.

The fact that this Guardian interview could take place at all is testament to the successful outcomes available through restorative processes.

Picture of UK success in Restorative Justice

Reggie and Kathleen (who didn’t want to give her surname). Photograph: David Sillitoe for the Guardian

In the U.K., the Ministry of Justice is in the midst of major reforms. One of those reforms will be an increased reliance on restorative principles. A Green Paper focusing on addiction quotes a former inmate describing his experience with the process:

“I was in prison waiting to be sentenced. I was asked to meet some people face-to-face who I had burgled to get money for drugs. I only did it to get out of the cell for an hour, I thought it would be easy. But it was different. When you hear about the damage you have done, when you feel the harm you have caused, you have to be a very, very bitter and twisted person for this not to affect you. I have had easier days at the Old Bailey.”

Peter Woolf, rehabilitated repeat offender in testimony to the Centre for Social Justice

“Old Bailey” is the Central Criminal Court in England, named for the street in which it stands. It is a court building in central London, one of a number of buildings housing the Crown Court. The Crown Court sitting at the Central Criminal Court deals with major criminal cases from Greater London and, in exceptional cases, from other parts of England and Wales.

In a terse summation of the case for reform, the authors of the Green Paper conclude:

“Restorative Justice is over-researched and under-utilised. It is proven to be highly effective in increasing victim satisfaction levels and reducing . . . re-offending. To begin to put rehabilitation at the heart of the prison system we will introduce Restorative Justice Conferences to enhance justice for victims and begin the process of life change for prisoners.”

Beyond Phenomenal Forgiveness: A Mother’s Relationship with Her Son’s Killer

Victim-offender Johnson Israel

Mary Johnson, 59, spoke with Oshea Israel, 34, at StoryCorps in Minneapolis.

Ginny H., a friend of this blog, shared this story (<—click here) from National Public Radio's StoryCorps. If you missed the NPR broadcast this morning, I urge you to invest the time to read and listen to this story. It begins with the gang-related murder of her son, Laramiun Byrd, and it extends from a conscious decision to forgive the killer to developing a loving relationship with him.

For people who champion Restorative Justice, this can only be a story of inspiration. Involving victims and offenders in restorative conferences early on might increase the likelihood of phenomenal outcomes like these. It is not an easy process, and not everyone in the justice system will even be willing to consider restorative options. But the story of Mary Johnson and Oshea Israel stands as a testimony to what is sometimes possible.

If you’re involved in neighborhood justice, or the local justice system — or, if you are just a concerned citizen who wants something more than orange jump suits for offenders, followed by the release of angry inmates into your community — and, if you think crime victims deserve a time of deep listening to their pain by the offender, the justice system and the community, maybe you will want to investigate local options for Restorative Justice (RJ).

RJ offers no easy grace or instantaneous forgiveness. It entails a difficult process to repair harms done, and to restore victims and offenders to a more compassionate community. The current system of warehousing of prisoners and neglecting crime victims does not seem to be working at all well. Is it time to investigate alternatives?

Call the Governor: Restorative Justice Bill Passes Colorado General Assembly

Colorado’s General Assembly passed legislation Wednesday night in the waning hours of its current session to include restorative justice practices among the options available to the justice system.  Participation must be voluntarily chosen.

Colorado Senator Linda Newell, co-sponsor or Restorative Justive bill

State Sen. Newell steered restorative justice bill through Colorado Senate.

Senate sponsor Sen. LindaNewell (linda.newell.senate@gmail.com) and House sponsor Rep. Pete Lee (reppete@gmail.com)  guided the legislation through multiple votes.  The House concurred with the Senate version in a vote late on May 11.  HB 11-1032, now goes to Gov.  John Hickenlooper for signature.

The bill encourages each school district in the state and the state charter school institute to implement restorative justice practices that each school in the district or each institute charter school can use in its disciplinary program.

The bill also creates the right for a victim to be informed by the district attorney about the availability of restorative justice practices and the possibility of a victim-offender conference.

To contact Gov. Hickenlooper, call (303) 866-2471 or Fax (303) 866-2003.  A common perception is that restorative practices can be costly.  A call or fax to Gov. Hickenlooper could offer a counterbalance.

Lynn Lee (lynnglee@aol.com), wife of the bill’s House sponsor Rep. Pete Lee, is active in the Pikes Peak Restorative Justice Council.  She is the recent recipient of the John Gallagher Restorative Justice Volunteer of the Year Award.

 

 

The Assassination of Osama bin Laden: The Retributive Justice We Craved

Before hearing President Obama’s announcement about the killing of Osama bin Laden, I read an ironic posting from a young friend on Facebook.  ”President Obama announces Osama bin Laden is dead…But, is it the ‘LONG form’ dead?”  I chuckled, assuming it was humorous speculation, poking fun at the “birthers” who took such a drubbing at the White House Correspondents’ Dinner.

A little later, I indulged my news junkie self and checked CNN.  That’s when I heard the news.

I admit, when I heard about U.S. Navy Seals taking out Osama bin Laden in his suburban villa, my first reaction was, “YESSS!  It’s about damn time!”  Naturally, my mind immediately flashed back the images and memories of the morning of September 11, 2001.  I thought about the people of many nationalities and many faiths, or no faith that matches a census box, who plunged to their deaths.  That reaction has not entirely changed.  At a visceral level, I still feel, as they saying goes, “Justice was done.”

But I held back from posting those first feelings.  I’m glad I did.  I mean, this IS a blog about peacemaking, isn’t it?  I’m fortunate to have several communities that help me move beyond my own ingrained impulses that cry for retribution.  The fairnessworks.p1r8.net community is the newest addition to the communities that help me take a moment to step back from my visceral reactions.  Two others are my home parish, St. Augustine of Canterbury Episcopal Church, and the worldwide network of Education for Ministry (EfM).

I mentor an EfM group at my church on Monday nights.  Understandably the topic was fresh on all our minds.  While there was no love lost for Osama and his crimes, I sensed a reluctance to join in the gleeful cheers of “USA!  USA!”  The group’s wisdom held us back from a full-throated cheer for the weekend’s mission.

Each week, our parish prayers on Sunday morning include the names of many active military families, and we have done our share to provide caring support to them.  In the year after 9/11, our prayers included the names of the 3,000+ people who lost their lives in the al-Qaeda attacks.  Like many communities, we felt the impact of Osama’s cruelty. So, there was no shortage of solidarity with the many people affected by that fateful day.

Soon after the announcement of bin Laden’s death, the online community of EfM mentors was reflecting on the news, reminding us of our faith and ethical commitments to bring restoration, not retribution.  A few online messages also redirected my thinking.

Rabbi advises restoration over retribution

Rabbi Geoff Mitelman, Sinai and Synapses

Then, on Tuesday, I read the words of Rabbi Geoffrey A. Mitelman on Huffington Post.  “Retributive Justice and Restorative Justice.” If you missed it, I urge you to click the link and read it.  Here are some of his lines that popped out at me:

Most Americans are clearly rejoicing over the death of Osama bin Laden. And in listening to what people are saying, I think that sense of joy is based on the feeling that “justice has been served.” But what kind of “justice” was it? Why did that justice feel so good? And where do we go from here?

Instead, we should also be thinking about restorative justice, which is about asking, “What do we do now?” This is a harder, but more important question. There is no restitution for the lives that bin Laden took. There is nothing that can be done to bring those loved ones back. So how do we move ahead to create a better world?

Yes, bin Laden is dead. But as many have noted, al Qaeda still poses a threat. There is still the possibility of retaliation. And that simple fact reminds us that our world is still far from whole. And so may we have the strength and wisdom to rid the world of wrongdoing and evil — not by focusing on the death of those who propagate it, but instead, through our ability to restore a sense of justice and peace to the world.

I share these personal observations as a way of demonstrating the importance of having a supportive community to serve as a counterbalance to those powerful forces of society (and within ourselves) which offer immediate gratification for our very human desires for pay-back.  For me, I am grateful today for the people who understand my first impulses, but who help me refocus on a higher, more difficult standard.  Alone, this would be impossible.

Peacemaking begins at the personal level and emanates outward.   Longterm, it is not a solo act.

Shalom!