Help a child learn early on and prevent a life in jail. Interrupt the school-to-prison pipeline.

Consider this:  the reading scores of your 3rd grade child and her classmates helps prison planners project the number of jail cells that will be needed within a decade.  (Do you ever envision your elementary school child behind prison bars?)

The prison prediction aphorism is popular among advocates for early childhood intervention and tutoring.  This startling factoid grabbed my attention as I was attending an informational meeting at my church in south suburban Atlanta, GA,  recently.  About 20 of us heard this arresting news from the director of an after-school tutoring program, Path to Shine.  We attended as potential  volunteers.  Our hope is to create a chapter in our parish.

Several teachers, both active and retired, were in the meeting, and were not at all shocked by the statement.  People close to the classroom know the statement points to a truth they know from experience.  It was clear to them that early intervention to help children learn to read and love to learn can change the path of their lives.  They seemed to know the reality of the school-to-prison pipeline.

The Atlantic Monthly, in a July 12 report, called the popular nugget into question, but hedged its bets with the headline, An Urban Myth that Should be True.”  The writer, John Hudson, questioned the literal statement but proceeded to make a case for its essential truth. Click on the link and read the story. Let me know what YOU think. Or, share it on Facebook and see what your friends say.

Setting aside for a moment the literal accuracy of the jarring factoid, I was still trying to digest the concept of a “school-to-prison pipeline” when I came across the even more shocking idea, the “cradle-to-prison pipeline.”

Fingerprinting a child

Reading scores are an early predictor of incarceration. Children who read below their classmates in 3rd grade are at higher risk of eventual incarceration. They’re already statistically at risk of falling into the school-to-prison pipeline.

“Many people have heard about the school-to-prison pipeline — how harsh school discipline policies funnel kids into the criminal justice system. Last month, the Children’s Defense Fund  issued its 2012 report on the State of America’s Children, whose data show how black children move through the Cradle-to-Prison Pipeline at higher rates than any other group.”

If a few volunteer hours a week could keep a kid in your neighborhood from going to prison, wouldn’t you consider the time well-spent?


The Children’s Defense Fund produced this slide presentation to illustrate the Cradle-to-Prison Pipeline.

Bullying ‘prank’ by sophomore’s classmates draws community outrage to support Whitney Kropp

Students at Ogemaw Heights High School in West Branch, Michigan thought it would be hilarious to elect someone they considered unpopular  to the Homecoming Court.  Little did they know their cruel bullying prank would rally the town’s support for the young woman who was the butt of their “joke.”

Bullying prank brings supportive response from home town

Sophomore Whitney Kropp saw her Michigan town come to her defense in response to a bullying bad joke by her classmates.

In the small town of West Branch, MI, located a half hour north of Saginaw, the 16-year-old sophomore, Whitney Kropp, won the election.  The Detroit News   reports that after her election her classmates pointed at her and laughed when they passed her in the hall.  The male student who was elected with her, a popular football player, quickly withdrew because he didn’t want to be associated with her.  Francis X. Donnelly (email: fdonnelly@detnews.com) reported in the Detroit News story.  Some cyber bullying was involved, too, in the form of cruel Facebook messages.

Word of the bad joke quickly spread around the town, reminding some alums of bullying they had experienced years ago, as if the bullying had occurred recently, the newspaper reported:

A Facebook support page was created, quickly drawing hundreds of messages of encouragement. The page has more likes (more than 3,500) than the town has people (2,100).

“A bank account was opened for Whitney Kropp’s homecoming expenses but wasn’t needed.  So many businesses donated services that everything was covered.”

Local businesses stepped up:

For the homecoming dance Saturday, businesses will buy her dinner, take her photo, fix her hair and nails, and dress her in a gown, shoes and a tiara. For the homecoming game Friday, residents will pack the football stadium so they can cheer when she is introduced at halftime.  They will be wearing her favorite color (orange) and T-shirts with messages of support.  A 68-year-old grandmother offered to be her escort.

An alumnus of Whitney Kropp’s high school, who was also the victim of bullying as an underclass member, recorded a video in support of her, which appeared on The Huffington Post Bullying also plagued an alumnus of Whitney Kropp’s high school. He created a video in her support.

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$6,800 lost per school student drop-out – and how Restorative Justice can stop the losses

Editor’s Note:  It’s a treat to welcome back Jeannette Holtham as a guest blogger.  In making a case for exposing every school student and faculty member to restorative justice practices, she offers a “dollars and sense” rationale.  Jeannette may be reached at youthtransformationcenter@gmail.com.  If you like what she says, please post a comment here or drop her an email.

Colorado advocate of Restorative Justice practices in schools, Jeannette Holtham

Guest blogger Jeannette Holtham testified in support of SB 12-046 for restorative justice practices in Colorado schools.

Here’s a great math and logic problem:

 If a school loses $6,800 for each student that drops out of school, why would that school overuse suspension, expulsion or police ticketing that has contributed to the average 50% dropout rate in major metro cities across America?

I see you’re scratching your head on this one.  Okay, let’s add some examples to the equation just because I know you’re up for the challenge.  [pullquote]When Howard Zehr’s book Changing Lenses fell into Jeannette Holtham’s lap more than a decade ago—literally, from a library bookshelf—she began to read.  “The light just went on,” she says, as she read about this intriguing concept of restorative justice, a way to get offenders to be accountable for behaviors while making sure those they’d harmed got their needs met.[/pullquote]

 

 

An elementary school student accidentally breaks a knickknack on a teacher’s desk resulting in a police ticket for “criminal mischief.”  An 11-year-old swings a bean bag in the classroom and it slips out of his hands and hits the teacher.  The child is arrested for “third degree assault.”  A high school student puts a small cardboard soup container into a microwave to heat and doesn’t notice that it contains a thin foil sheet under the cover.

After it burns out the microwave the student is permanently expelled for “destroying school property.”  How about this one:  four brothers and sisters don’t come to school for six weeks.  The school files truancy charges and tells the students never to come back.  It’s discovered weeks later that the single Mom couldn’t afford shoes for her children.  Unfortunately, these are true stories from Colorado.[pullquote]Before she could take action on what she’d learned, however, she underwent a near-death, life-altering experience during surgery.  With a second chance to live, after twelve weeks of recovery, she went skydiving, a metaphor for her promise to God and the Universe to take more risks to help youth, particularly those dealing with high-risk factors such as suspension, expulsion, and incarceration. [/pullquote]

It doesn’t take a math whiz to see that the bottom line is red.  We taxpayers fund these ineffective punitive responses to wrongdoing (and believe you me, they are more prevalent than any of us would care to imagine).  Thankfully, restorative justice is a worldwide movement reaching critical mass and offers a powerful tool for those educators who are committed to keeping kids in school.  [pullquote]In 2005 Jeannette launched Youth Transformation Center, a non-profit organization dedicated to inspiring youth to leave risky behaviors behind and move toward healthier, more fulfilling lifestyles.  In her curriculum called “Boomerang,” teens invent a big dream for their lives and get re-energized about school as a stepping stone in their action plan for life.[/pullquote] There’s even hope for America where we have the highest incarceration rate in the “civilized” world, where 2,300 people who went to prison before the age of 17 are serving life without parole, and where we seem to have no problem paying $68,000 a year to lock up a juvenile but have a big problem paying $6,800 to keep that child in school.

Restorative justice (RJ) exists to provide a safe, respectful circle dialog where offenders come face to face with those they’ve harmed in order to take responsibility for their behaviors and repair the harm to the greatest extent possible.  Victims get to be heard, and together they come up with meaningful, relevant consequences for the offender, and they sign an agreement that is closely monitored by a facilitator to its conclusion.  It works because it gives a school student a chance to return to the learning community with honor having done the right thing.  It’s reducing discipline by as much as 60% even in high-risk, dangerous schools.  Sadly, there are still many schools that have never heard of restorative justice which puts forth the challenge to all of us to alert our schools and educators to the worldwide grassroots movement of restorative justice now reaching critical mass.[pullquote] Her book could just as easily have been titled How to Put Hundreds of Thousands of Dollars Back into School Budgets.[/pullquote]  This practical, no-nonsense guide gets right to the heart of how to keep school students  in the classroom and stop the school-to-prison pipeline.

[amazon_enhanced asin="0982270615" /] Taking Restorative Justice to Schools: A Doorway to Discipline is the first practical, comprehensive “how to” guide for schools that want to launch a restorative justice component to their current discipline systems—a great teacher gift and now available online for $19.95 at amazon.com and barnesandnoble.com.

‘Zero Tolerance’ of bullies? Hungary’s schools offer another response to conflict mediation

As school boards, state and local governments draft legislation to respond to increased reports of bullying, the term “zero tolerance” often comes up. When New Jersey recently implemented its sweeping “Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights,” the “zero tolerance” formula appeared in several news reports.

I posed a question to a restorative justice discussion group on LinkedIn.com, asking if a zero tolerance approach is the wisest choice for conflict management. Not surprisingly, the RJ practitioners and volunteers who responded were unanimous: No, it is not the wisest approach.

One member, writing from London, England, pointed me to a video — Intertwined –produced by a school-based conflict management program in Hungary. When he added that the video includes English subtitles, I gave it a click, and I include the link here and embed the video below.  The fairly fast-paced video includes a lively music track.

Readers who are familiar with restorative practices will immediately see those practices acted out in the various scenarios by the students and faculty. Instead of isolating, stigmatizing and expelling troublesome students, the program emphasizes creating an inclusive climate through peer support and engagement. Conflicts aren’t ignored or dismissed, but they are not reflexively handled through heavy-handed discipline or ostracism.

Special thanks to Martin Wright of the Lambeth Mediation Service, and contributor to the website RJ Online.

Intertwined – community conflict resolution in school from Balazs Benedek on Vimeo.

Back to School: 8 PeacemakingTips for Kids and Faculty

As the U.S. Congress heads off on vacation after a rancorous summer, children are heading back to school.  To many Americans outside the Washington, DC, Beltway Republicans and Democrats in the House and Senate seem woefully incapable of getting along.

Houston Chronicle reporter Amy Biancolli poses the question:  If our elected officials can’t learn how to play nice, what should we tell our kids?  How can we teach them the art of compromise?  Biancolli interviewed mediators and summed up their advice in eight suggested steps:

First, start early.

“Parents should begin this extremely early in a child’s life,” said Faith Wilson, a Houston-based mental health professional who serves on the board of the Collaborative Law Institute of Texas.

Parenting offers countless opportunities for compromise, whether the issue is bedtime, playtime or “when they’re going to get their homework done after school. You start early in life to model the appropriate way to negotiate things,” Wilson told The Chronicle.

Naomi Drew web shots of school peacemaking projects

This picture is painted on a wall in the main office of Big Spring Lake Kindergarten School, Albertville, AL, next to the principal's door.

Second, both sides should sit down and listen to each other, whether they’re kids at lunchtime or adults on the Senate floor. Listen. Not just hear what they want to hear and then channel it through their own, inflamed emotions, advises Dan Naranjo, a lawyer, mediator and arbitrator who started the Peacemakers Project in San Antonio schools.

Third, both parties (having listened) should try to empathize with the opposite side. Demonizing your opponent is a great way to sabotage any attempt at resolution.

Fourth, determine what, precisely, each side wants. Ed Wertheim, an expert in mediation and negotiation at Northeastern University in Boston, cites Jimmy Carter’s peace negotiations with Israel and Egypt in 1978-79. “The key, there, was he got at underlying interests. And it wasn’t that Israel needed the land – Sinai. They wanted security. And Egypt wanted their land back.” The result was a demilitarized zone that met both countries’ needs.

Fifth, sweeten the deal. “Strangely, I find that often children may be better negotiators than we as adults are,” Wertheim said. “Often if you tell kids no’ on something, they’ll instinctively try to throw some other things into the pot. I wanna stay over at my friend’s house.’ No, you can’t.’ I’ll clean my room! I’ll take care of my baby sister!’ ”

Sixth, compromise isn’t always a good thing. In some ways, said Paul Schrodt, an associate professor of communication studies at Texas Christian University in Fort Worth,   it should be an approach of last resort.

“Our culture promotes this idea that compromising is the best way to resolve conflict, but in actuality, compromise is a lose-lose situation – meaning, compromise usually occurs when both sides have given up part of what they hope to accomplish.”

Instead, Schrodt promotes collaboration – parties working together to achieve their goals.

Seventh, sometimes a happy ending simply isn’t possible. Be prepared to throw in the towel.  ”Obviously, if what the other person wants would bring harm to themselves or bring harm to others, that would be a time to walk away,” Schrodt said.

Eighth, it’s always smart to call in a third party – someone with no stake in the outcome.  ”Somebody’s gotta be a neutral (party) who doesn’t have a dog in the fight for 2012,” Naranjo said. “A neutral would be able to help facilitate ideas to resolve the dispute – to simply say, Let’s prioritize. … Let’s start talking to each other and start talking with each other, rather than yelling and screaming and politicizing.’ ”

Email Amy Biancolli at:  amy.biancolli@chron.com

10 Recent Links to Funding for Youth and Juvenile Justice Programs

Below are Ten (10) Links to Foundations and Grants that will be helpful in funding your Youth Justice and Juvenile Justice activities.  Special thanks to, “Making the Time for Juvenile Crime.” -Scott Peterson

The Youth Today Website has a great listing of grants from private and public and links are provided for each listed opportunity.

The Foundation Center at Philanthropy News Digest lists primarily private corporate and foundation funding and grant opportunities.

The National Clearing House for Family and Youth at the Administration for Children, Youth and Families has a listing of grants and these are primarily federal grants.  If your special interest is in protecting children, click here.

The Grantsmanship Center has a clickable map where you click on your state and you are provided with a listing of community and state foundations and Corporate Grants. Raising money from grants entails careful organizational self- assessment and planning, long before you submit a skillful proposal.    Training is available from The Grantsmanship Center.

Have you seen the new Grants listing at Spark Action?  It’s worth spending time here if you are a concerned teacher, counselor, parent of a troubled teen, or advocate for youth.

Grants.Gov has a user friendly website where you click on the federal agency for funding or you can click on categories like Youth Development or Justice Grants.  Click here

The Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention (OJJDP) lists funding announcements directly from OJJDP and they have a map to funding sources in your states.

The National Criminal Justice Reference Center has a listing of a wide range of criminal and juvenile justice grants.  While at the website – join their e-newsletter to get updates.

The Open Society Institute and Foundation offers a wide range grants.  Yes – this is foundation of Billionaire George Soros and they have many outstanding opportunities.

The Global Youth Justice Website lists all of the above funding opportunities and hundreds and hundreds more.  Check out the Famous Resource Links Button at the Global Youth Justice

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Parents of Troubled Teens — Start Your Search Here

Parents of troubled teens, and their teachers and counselors, live with the likelihood that their rapidly maturing children might soon face the court system.  Suddenly the child who seemed so full of promise might face the very real prospect of facing a juvenile court referral.  From that point, the probability of having a child in the justice system is a nagging threat.  The fear is always lurking that their “golden child”, their beloved son or daughter,  might soon face expulsion for bullying, or become a defendant in a bullying case.  Some, who fear that the taunts of their children’s classmates may be true, and that their child might really be gay, lesbian, or transgendered, worry that their kids might be bullied and suffer lifelong scars, or even death.

[amazon_enhanced asin="0979841127" /]In 21st Century America, the threat of violence is always a possibility.  Even middle-class, peaceful families know that they are not immune.  Not only in America, but in Canada, England, Australia, New Zealand…in any so-called developed nation around the world, parents walk a thin line between responding to classroom discipline and facing an escalation in the system’s treatment of their child.

At fairnessworks.p1r8.net, we are looking for ways of bringing concerned parents into constructive contact — early in the process, before “juvie” or jail  — with methods of intervention and conflict resolution which can save the future of their troubled teens.  The goal of this blog is to link parents like these with well-established methods of responding to youth crises, such as Restorative Justice and peacemaking circles.  Creating a Culture of Care in the schools is a possible solution, with practitioners who know how to implement these programs.  Hope for restoration is not a false hope, and the possibility of linking to alternatives to punitive and retributive justice is a viable option.

We include a wealth of links to alternative methods at fairnessworks.  Look at the categories and tags in the column at right, click on them, read and follow up on them, if you are the parent (or concerned adult) in the life of a troubled teenager.  Post your comments here and reach out for help.  If you have read this far, you are a “seat-of-the-pants peacemaker,” and you are NOT alone.  You are the person we want to reach at fairnessworks.p1r8.net.

As the editor and publisher of this blog, I am not the counselor you might need.  But I will do my best to link you to the help you are seeking.  Remember, you are not alone.
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“Bully” Helps Middle Schoolers Confront School Violence

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Matthew Kuehlhorn

You might not think of a middle school counselor as a “seat-of-the-pants peacemaker.”  If your child is facing daily bullying, you might see him in a different light.  If your child is withdrawing from life, suddenly uncommunicative, maybe you think about talking to the school administration.  If you are lucky, you will find someone like Matthew Kuehlhorn.

Matthew Kuehlhorn is a Colorado middle school counselor who is passionate about helping create a community of care in schools.  He is exploring ways of implementing Restorative Justice methods in his workplace — your child’s school.  At my invitation, he submitted the following.  Recent postings in fairnessworks.p1r8.net have featured examples of programs which implement restorative, peacemaking methods.  Matthew’s efforts are a timely example of what an individual can do to help create peace.

Matthew is passionate about a graphic novel entitled, Bully.  I hope you will check this out and find ways to implement his peacemaking passions into your own local school.

Bully is an educational illustrated novel.

An illustrated novel

The book is designed to “Ignite the Voice Within” classroom, as he terms it.  Bully is an illustrated novel that teaches relationship building skills and introduces restorative justice practices and theory.

Bully is an amazing story where characters talk directly to middle school readers. The story is emotionally charged and very real for students in today’s classrooms.

After speaking with an educator who used this book in individual sessions, Matthew says, she remarked:

“I have had readers tell me that they have not finished a book in five years. They love this book and have a high interest in finishing it. The book offers great conversation topics which can affect student behavior in our school–for the better!”

Students report this book being like “real life” and the feedback has been amazing.

Bully is 130 pages, which are broken into five sections with “Ignite Now” lessons offered.  Lessons teach:  how to listen, how to tell our story so it gets heard, how to feel empathy, and the book concludes with introducing talking circles and restorative justice.

The book is authored by Teresa Milbrodt, a published short story author and Creative Writing Professor at Western State College of Colorado.  Compelling illustrations were created by Nathan Kubes, a freelance artist, also in Gunnison, CO.

What other people say about Bully:

“I had students, who had not finished a book in years, unable to put this book down.”
Middle School English Teacher

“This is like Real Life”
7th Grade Student

“I recommend this book for students, parents, teachers, counselors, administrators and those people interested in education.”
Dr. Tom Cavanagh

Dr. Tom Cavanagh

 

Dr. Cavanagh, whose current focus is on creating a “Culture of Care” in schools,  has published a review of Bully which can be viewed at:

http://restorativepracticesinschools.blogspot.com/2010/11/new-book-addresses-bullying.html

If you are a school teacher or counselor, and have ideas about reaching the potential peacemakers in your local community, please share your comments below.  I’d suggest this mental exercise:  what Google searches would your students’ parents enter to find help for their concerns troubled teens?

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Restorative Justice Lesson: What a take on “an eye for an eye”!

If you click no other link today, please click on this one: on “Paintball Justice.”  You can download a pdf of the paper, if you feel especially geeky.  (Hint: feel geeky.)

Dr. Tom Cavanagh’s new blog merits a few moments of your time!  You may be familiar with “The Paintball Case,” but if you aren’t, you’re in store for an amazing example of how Restorative Justice can give an entirely new, 21st Century, application to the ancient Hebrew law of proportionality in retribution, “An eye for an eye.”

To many of us “post-moderns,” the retributive practice of lex talionis may seem simultaneously common sensical, fair, yet still barbaric.  When you consider the preceding historical practice went something like this —  an entire tribe must give it’ s life for an offense of any kind against one’s own tribe — lex talionis sounds awfully reasonable.

Dr. Tom’s blog  case of Paintball Justice shows the amazing outcomes that can emerge from an offender who, in a community of accountability and restorative justice, offers an amend that is far greater than any court might impose.  It’s a worthwhile lesson for the criminal justice system.

Please share your responses here by commenting on this posting.  If you find it helpful, tell Dr.  Cavanagh.  (Self-promotional note:  tell him you saw it on www. fairnessworks.p1r8.net.)  He may be reached at cavanagh.tom@gmail.com.

Spoiler alert.  Read the pdf before reading the following:

District Court Judge Fred McElrea, of Auckland, New Zealand, a pioneer in the application of restorative justice processes in the courts, made these comments about “The Paintball Case”:  “I think this a great case study – informative, educative and insightful.  What was most impressive was the boy’s offer to donate part of his eye if that would bring back her sight.  The second reaction I have is to marvel at the way in which restorative justice helps build community bonds that were not there before – for example, the common interest and empathy of the two families.  Lastly, it brings home how simple it really is to get these things going!  That is because this sort of process is second nature to most people, whereas the court process is an artificial, ritualized procedure that obscures people’s real feelings and desire for reconciliation.”