Restorative Practices in Response to Bullying Gain a Slight Foothold in Schools

School has been back in session in the U.S. for awhile now and officials are dealing with bullying issues once again.

There is spotty evidence that some districts are looking beyond Zero Tolerance policies and automatic expulsion or suspension of kids who bully their classmates. In these districts, there is a conscious policy choice to use restorative practices first instead of punitive practices such as expulsion and suspension.

In the Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, School District, schools are implementing a comprehensive change program to address bullying, known as the SaferSanerSchools Whole School Change Program, developed by the International Institute for Restorative Practices (IIRP).

Rather than reflexively opt for immediate expulsion or suspension of kids who bully others, these districts are attempting to bring the bullied and the bully together with all their classmates into restorative circles to address the misbehavior as a community. The goal is accountability and community restoration rather than isolation, alienation, suspension, expulsion and stigmatization. It’s a first step toward interrupting the schools-to-prison pipeline.

It’s a risky proposition, and it takes more time than a rigid “throw the bully out” approach. But it holds the real possibility of keeping the bullying offender and the bullying victim together in community, rather than placing one more child in the school-to-prison pipeline. The statistics on expulsion and suspension are clear: each incident of suspension or expulsion increases the child’s chances of ending up in prison.

Programs such as SaferSanerSchools requires participation of the entire school community, from students and teachers to administrators, parents and even cafeteria and janitorial staffs. Successful implementation requires involvement of the entire community, since bullying affects everyone in the school community.

In one dramatic example:

Suspensions, expulsions, fights, bullying and other forms of poor student behavior dropped at Freedom and Liberty high schools during the 2011-12 school year, documents show.
The improved discipline picture is a reversal of 2009-10 and 2010-11 when infractions went up in the Bethlehem Area School District‘s two high schools as part of a district-wide increase of 36 percent.
Compared with the 2010-11 school year, suspensions dropped 20 percent to 978 in 2011-12. The number of students in suspension three times or more went down 43 percent to 493 at the two high schools over the same time frame, according to the Code of Conduct report, which separates offenses into three levels of severity.

Restorative practices and restorative circles allow the victims to be heard, the harms done to them to be recognized. Restorative practices even permit the bully to say why he or she was aggressive in the first place. Using restorative practices, all members of the community share in the process, expressing their experiences of the harms that have been done by the bullying of their fellow community members. All members of the community, all stakeholders, share a part in the communal response.

Ideally, even the parents of the bully and the bullied are present for the restorative circle conference. For restorative practices to have their maximum effect, all parties participate in these restorative circles, or accountability sessions, as the community asserts its values. Ideally, the bully and the bullied are restored to community and neither is stigmatized or ostracized.

For more information about restorative practices, contact:
IIRP Graduate School
531 Main St.
Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, USA
(610) 807-9221

SC Presbytery Hosts Peacebuilding Conference Sept. 23-25 with Global Reach

Racial reconciliation, tribal warfare in the Sudan, conflicted congregations, crime victims, shell shocked soldiers, and family feuds — what do all these have in common?

Peacebuilding Conference to feature the need for healing

Rembrandt's classic painting, "Return of the Prodigal"

Fairnessworks.com is dedicated to spreading the news about resources for peacemakers. As the many hyperlinks will show, this upcoming conference offers an impressive slate of speakers and session leaders.  If you like what you see, please share this news with your circle of friends.

The Peacemaking Committee for South Carolina’s Trinity Presbytery invites you to attend:

 RESTORING COMMUNITY IN A BROKEN WORLD

A Peacebuilding Conference September 23 – 25, 2011

Come learn some explicit approaches and techniques that will help professionals and lay people alike as they seek to build community and restore a sense of wholeness to individuals, families, and churches in need of reconciliation.

Friday evening, Saturday all day workshops, and Sunday morning worship includes two meals together (Attendees may register for Saturday only).

Professional Continuing Education Credit will be available for Attorneys, Licensed Professional Social Workers, and Clinical Psychologists, for a nominal fee.

Nonviolent Communication:

The Rev. Theresa Latini (Luther Seminary), a Presbyterian pastor and certified trainer in NVC, will introduce the basic concepts of this method of communicating that will improve every aspect of your interpersonal relationships.

Restorative Circles:

Mikhail Lyubansky, who has studied Restorative Circles with internationally known Dominic Barter, will introduce the theory and method of this community-owned restorative practice that was developed by Barter and his associates in the favelas of Brazil.

STAR Model of Trauma Healing:

Elaine Zook Barge, Director for Strategies for Trauma Awareness and Resilience at the Center for Justice and Peacebuilding at Eastern Mennonite University, will introduce participants to the STAR method for trauma healing

Greensboro Truth and Reconciliation Commission:

The Rev. Nelson Johnson and the Rev. Joyce Johnson will share their experience with the Greensboro Massacre and the resulting Truth and Reconciliation Commission they founded which has now won international recognition and awards.  The Johnsons co-founded The Beloved Community Center in Greensboro, NC.

The work of the Presbyterian Church in Sudan:

The Rev. Peter Tibi, a Visiting International Peacemaker of the Presbyterian Church, will share his work among tribal warriors in South Sudan, the world’s newest country.

SPONSORED BY THE PEACEMAKING COMMITTEE FOR TRINITY PRESBYTERY

Meet Janice Jerome: A Passion for Peacemaking Circles and Restorative Justice

A friend from my church’s Education for Ministry class offered to introduce me to a practitioner and trainer of Restorative Justice methods, the kind that utilizes peacemaking circles.

Janice Jerome, peacemaker, mediator.

On a rainy, ugly Saturday Georgia afternoon, Janice Jerome drove 45 minutes to share her passion for peacemaking with me.

Janice burst forth from her truck, offering a welcoming hug.  No handshakes for us!  She returned to her vehicle to retrieve a book bag filled with a mini-library.   She shared with me two books from the series, The Little Books of Justice and Peacebuilding, one by a grandfather of the restorative justice movement, Howard Zehr, the other by Kay Pranis, a noted author, trainer and practitioner in the field, based at the Minnesota Office of Corrections.

Right away, Janice disabused me of the notion that Peacemaking Circles are limited in application to the justice system.  She reeled off a list of settings in which the methodology has worked, based on her own experiences.   Wherever there is a community facing a challenge, a conflict, a rupture, the method offers the potential of restoration and wholeness, she said.  Success depends on the community members, she said, though it seemed clear to my “newbie” eyes that the facilitator brings much to the process.

Janice believes there are individuals who know early in life that they are peacemakers.  Their circumstances will vary, but their orientation toward peacemaking is distinctly present.

At some point during her presentation, Janice commented, “You may have noticed that I haven’t said anything about God or Jesus.  That’s because God is a given.”   I asked, “God is the ground of our being?”  and she went right back into her presentation.  I took that to be a yes.

Among her mentors, Janice counts Dominic Barter, who pioneered the use of restorative circles in the poverty-stricken favelas of Brazil. [pullquote] [Editor's Update:  Dominic Barter, will be sharing the Restorative Circle process during a 5-day learning event in Champaign, IL October 12-16., 2011.][/pullquote]

As we shared a few personal experiences,  Janice pointed out the difference between love and understanding.  The primary thing is love, she said. Understanding may not come right away.  The point is, love is what we have to offer, even before understanding comes.

To reach Janice, email her at:  Janice.Jerome@live.com